Wedding Cancelled: “Annemarie, The Wedding Is Off…”
I was in the Bainbridge Island ferry line last week on my way to rehearsal for Steve and Shannon when I got an email: “Annemarie, Steve called off the wedding.”
I turned my car around out of the ferry line and headed home.
A bit later, I received an email from Shannon saying Steve was firm in his decision.
At the same time, she shared a bit which gave me the impression that because so many of the festivity pieces were in place, that a party for her friends and family was in the works, without a marriage to celebrate.
Each year, several of my couples cancel their weddings, most of the time about 1-4 months out and for a variety of reasons, many of which are hugely private and brave. It is unusual for a cancellation to occur within 24 hours of ceremony.
With this said, I honor Steve for his decision because in my opinion, getting married is often easier than cancelling on someone – whether this is the day before or three months out. Most of all, I honor and celebrate Shannon for her grace and heart in the wake of an emotional trauma.
** names changed for privacy